It’s all about how to be authentic, like how Hitch’s Albert Brennaman is when he’s around Alegra Cole. Regardless if you’re casually dating, online dating, or looking for a life partner, step one towards happiness is to get to know yourself. That’s a whole lot of pressure on the other person to meet our expectations, no? Many of us start listing off the kind of partner we want - beauty, brains, and whatnot.